Don’t stop having a vision when your wedding is over

Don’t stop having a vision when your wedding is over We tend to think a lot about our future leading up to the wedding. Many of us have a vision of what our lives would look like after we get married. Perhaps living in a nicely decorated home? Owning a pet together? Having some kidsContinue reading “Don’t stop having a vision when your wedding is over”

Why you should stop asking why

Why you should stop asking why When we are upset at our partner, we tend to ask a bunch of “why” questions… Why do you have to ignore me? Why don’t you understand me? Why can’t you treat me like before? Why are you so selfish? The problem is when we ask why, we automaticallyContinue reading “Why you should stop asking why”

Do you know how to be alone in a relationship?

Do you know how to be alone in a relationship? We focus so much on how to be together in a relationship, but do we know how to be alone when we are in a relationship? Here’s a true story… Carrie is in her 60s and has been married for many many years. She isContinue reading “Do you know how to be alone in a relationship?”

I am responsible for my own well-being

I am responsible for my own well-being Recently, I listened to an episode of Beawcast podcast and in there they talked about their own marriage. One specific mindset shift that Geo mentioned that she had was from “You are responsible for my well-being” to “I am responsible for my own well-being”. And I found itContinue reading “I am responsible for my own well-being”

What is the #1 cause of divorce?

What is the #1 cause of divorce? Contrary to what you might have heard, the #1 cause of divorce is not because of any of the following… Money Sex Infidelity Kids The in-laws Addictions While these issues can put a strain on the marriage, they do not necessarily cause a divorce. How we choose toContinue reading “What is the #1 cause of divorce?”