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Seven Lessons I’ve Learned After 18 Years of Being in a Long-Term Relationship

Reflecting on my 18-year relationship, I’m sharing seven key lessons that have helped us stay connected and keep growing together through different seasons of life.

Happy Wife, Happy Life…Until It’s Not

We’ve all heard of the saying “happy wife, happy life.” At first, it seems like a light-hearted relationship advice, maybe even good wisdom. But if we take a closer look at it, this saying is actually quite misleading and in the long run, it can even be harmful to your relationship.

I Feel Disconnected From My Partner, What Should I Do?

Feeling distant in a relationship is more common than you think. This post explores what you can do when you feel disconnected from your partner — starting with curiosity.

We can’t save each other, but money can?

We can’t save each other, but money can? I watched Minari over the weekend, and I absolutely loved the way it beautifully narrates the real struggles and tension between a married couple. *SPOILER ALERT* The movie talks about a Korean immigrant family in America, where the husband decides to move his whole family to aContinue reading “We can’t save each other, but money can?”

Why you should focus on yourself

Why you should focus on yourself Focusing on yourself….it’s what we should do, but also, it’s really the only thing we can do. When we focus on our partner instead of ourselves, it might look something like this: Constantly telling them what they should or should not do Complaining about them Always doing things forContinue reading “Why you should focus on yourself”