Are you a relationship blob?

Are you a relationship blob? I’ve been reading “Everything isn’t terrible” by Kathleen Smith, and she raised a question that really stuck with me, ”Are you a relationship blob?” Oftentimes, we hear phrases like “2 become 1” or “we complete each other”, which all imply that our partner is an extension of ourselves. It’s notContinue reading “Are you a relationship blob?”

Should I give an ultimatum for marriage?

Should I give an ultimatum for marriage? Giving a marriage ultimatum means that there is a perceived disagreement. Just like any other disagreements in a relationship, what is the best way to approach it? Before considering an ultimatum, you need to first ask yourself WHY you want to get married and WHY it’s so importantContinue reading “Should I give an ultimatum for marriage?”